Two people madly in love with each other that they can't wait to be back in each others arms. I have read, that some miss their partner so much. that they can't even sleep in the bed while their loved one is away. They want to spend that forever with their partner and, being without them for even the shortest of times, can be their loneliest. Also, some who lose their partner through death, go through months, and sometimes their life, not sleeping in the bed they shared. Extreme maybe, but all of us cope with grief and separation in different ways. But we mourne our loss, our separations the best way we can.
Love is very powerful. Yes we all vow the eternal, forever, kind of love. But in the present, we need our partner, our source of strength with us. Not many of us can deny the tears we shed at airports when someone close is leaving us.
Love is an extreme gift. No one can quantify it, fully describe it, but nearly all find it. When we do there are no barriers for our love. The bond and the individualised feeling, are shared by two. Yes sometimes, there can be complications for the love we share. But those barriers are not from within our hearts. Those barriers are from those that maybe, do not understand the depths that love brings.
Maybe, those people have not felt a love, that has no barriers. Maybe, those people need a book of guide lines as to how to love. Maybe, those people believe that each person's love is the same as the next and copied. Maybe, those people have that book at hand and can wipe their loss, their separation their anxiety to cope, because after all to them, love is something taught, and is not, something that comes from within.
Yes, I believe that love is as individual as the morning sun. It filters in different ways and each of us see that sun from different angles, from different perspectives. But, sure as the sun rises, we all feel that glow, but each and everyone of us will describe it in a different way. Yes, we may say it as it has been written before, but we feel, we experience, we need that warmth.
That warmth is felt by everyone on this planet and unless we block that warmth, and that glow, we of all nations, religion, colour and sexuality can and should have the right to experience the warmth the individualised pleasure that warms our hearts and our souls.
Feelings and love are not things that can be learned. They come from within. We can take advice and solace in how others have felt from the past by books of wisdom but this love, this sun is internal and only we know how that it affects us.
The text message at the beginning was from two guys who have been parted for whatever reason. But that love, that feeling of love can not, and should not, be seen as exclusive for people of the opposite sex. Each love is as different as we feel the sun rising.
Don't let the rose die on the vine because of what has been written in the past. Create your future. To say I honestly love you is your feeling, your life blood. Don't let gender, race, or colour, slant yours or anyone elses true love.
As the song goes, 'I'm a man like any other man, Unlike any other man.'
Cheers!
Bitchescoz
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